What you want to do is not possible with Remote Assistance.
Look at UltraVNC as an alternative. I find it to be quite responsive over
broadband data links particularly if you disable the rendering of the remote
VNC host/server PC desktop wallpaper and use the optional XP video driver on
the remote VNC host/server PC.
http://ultravnc.sourceforge.net/
Use the included encryption plug-in if you use this over the public internet
or run UltraVNC through a VPN or SSH tunnel for security. In all cases use a
"strong password"...

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>I would like to control a XP HOME PC across the internet from another
> XP HOME PC. Both PC's are connected via ADSL with a 1Mb downlink/256kb
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Matthew Bailey - 30 Aug 2005 15:58 GMT
Thanks for the advice. I will install UltraVNC and give that a try.
Cheers,
Matt
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