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Barry Margolin, barmar@alum.mit.edu
Arlington, MA
[snip]
> When you answer questions like these in a technical newsgroup,
> you're purporting to have some expertise on the subject. When it
> comes out that you don't know a whole lot about the technology,
> retorts like that are likely.
Why..?
Why is it necessary to be rude..? Would you call me an idiot to my face..?
Or is it only because you're hiding behind a keyboard..?
> If you don't like it, don't post to Usenet, because it happens all
> the time.
Again, why..? Why is it seemingly not possible to have sensible discussion
on Usenet..? Why could someone not simply have explained what I did not
know, rather than calling me an idiot..?
I don't like a lot of things, being called an idiot simply for being
unaware of something is one, being told not to post is another.
Ivor
Dave J - 20 Nov 2004 22:34 GMT
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>
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>Why is it necessary to be rude..? Would you call me an idiot to my face..?
>Or is it only because you're hiding behind a keyboard..?
I would quite possibly have called you an idiot to your face. I'd have
been smiling as I did so, and it could well have been taken as a
compliment.
Unfortunately, on a text only medium, we cannot know how Sean meant
it. I can only assume (from the LOL) that it was meant in an equally
lighthearted manner.
Plonking someone for an even more definitely lighthearted 'idiot!'
perhaps deserves the comment in a more serious frame of mind.
Oversensitivity on usenet is like using a schmitt trigger[1] to boost
a weak audio signal.
[1]
http://encarta.msn.com/encnet/features/dictionary/DictionaryResults.aspx?refid=1
861702223
or for more detail
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schmitt_trigger
Dave J.
Ivor Jones - 20 Nov 2004 23:53 GMT
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> I would quite possibly have called you an idiot to your face. I'd
> have been smiling as I did so, and it could well have been taken as
> a compliment.
I can assure you it would not.
> Unfortunately, on a text only medium, we cannot know how Sean meant
> it. I can only assume (from the LOL) that it was meant in an equally
> lighthearted manner.
I don't make assumptions. I take what I see at face value. If someone
calls me an idiot then to me that indicates they think I am an idiot.
> Plonking someone for an even more definitely lighthearted 'idiot!'
> perhaps deserves the comment in a more serious frame of mind.
>
> Oversensitivity on usenet is like using a schmitt trigger[1] to
> boost a weak audio signal.
If not liking offensive comments is being oversensitive then that's what I
am. I don't do it to others and I don't expect it to be done to me.
This discussion is becoming tiresome, so I propose to end it here. Just
don't be offensive to me is all I ask. Is that *so* unreasonable..?
Ivor
Dave J - 22 Nov 2004 12:11 GMT
>If not liking offensive comments is being oversensitive then that's what I
>am. I don't do it to others and I don't expect it to be done to me.
Before now, I have seen a high proportion of a usenet group (or maybe
a mailing list, not sure now), one after the next, call a poster a
'prat' because he threatened to killfile anyone who did so.
The thinking being that they would rather not have their messages read
by an oversensitive pillock, and that it was his loss anyway.
>This discussion is becoming tiresome, so I propose to end it here. Just
>don't be offensive to me is all I ask. Is that *so* unreasonable..?
Don't take offense over such minor (and friendly) provocation is all I
ask. Is *that* so unreasonable..?

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Ivor Jones - 22 Nov 2004 17:22 GMT
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> Don't take offense over such minor (and friendly) provocation is
> all I ask. Is *that* so unreasonable..?
Calling someone an idiot isn't friendly in my book.
(Finally) end of discussion.
Ivor
Barry Margolin - 29 Nov 2004 21:05 GMT
> [snip]
>
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> Why is it necessary to be rude..? Would you call me an idiot to my face..?
> Or is it only because you're hiding behind a keyboard..?
Because many people behave differently online than they do in person.
I'm not a psychologist (if you're really interested, read stuff by
people like Sherry Turkle), so I don't know *why*. It's simply a fact,
and if you don't learn to deal with it you'll be very frustrated in your
online experience.
> > If you don't like it, don't post to Usenet, because it happens all
> > the time.
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> I don't like a lot of things, being called an idiot simply for being
> unaware of something is one, being told not to post is another.
You're not an idiot, just less experienced and naturally ignorant of
many details. There are plenty of us who know this stuff well, so
responses by people like you just add noise and confusion, making it
harder for the folks who are trying to find good answers.

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Barry Margolin, barmar@alum.mit.edu
Arlington, MA
Ivor Jones - 29 Nov 2004 22:12 GMT
> You're not an idiot, just less experienced and naturally ignorant of
> many details.
Thankyou. So don't call me one.
Ivor
Barry Margolin - 30 Nov 2004 00:49 GMT
> > You're not an idiot, just less experienced and naturally ignorant of
> > many details.
>
> Thankyou. So don't call me one.
I didn't, did I? That was someone else.

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Barry Margolin, barmar@alum.mit.edu
Arlington, MA
Ivor Jones - 30 Nov 2004 16:51 GMT
>>> You're not an idiot, just less experienced and naturally ignorant
>>> of many details.
>>
>> Thankyou. So don't call me one.
>
> I didn't, did I? That was someone else.
I know, I didn't word it well, sorry.
Ivor